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# Practices for Children

How to choose shorter, concrete, age-appropriate Stillness Library practices for children.

Children's mindfulness should not simply be an adult meditation made shorter.

Language, pacing, imagery, movement, and expectations should match the child's developmental stage.

## Good children's practices are usually

* short
* concrete
* imaginative
* voluntary
* sensory
* easy to stop
* connected to everyday situations

## Useful intentions

Choose a practice based on the child's current need.

### For settling

Try gentle breathing, grounding, or a short body awareness exercise.

### For big feelings

Choose a practice that helps the child notice and name what is happening without demanding immediate calm.

### For bedtime

Use slow, predictable, low-stimulation guidance.

### For confidence

Choose practices that support self-kindness, steadiness, and realistic encouragement rather than exaggerated positive claims.

### For focus

Use short attention games, sound awareness, or breath counting.

## Eyes open is fine

Children do not need to close their eyes.

For some children, eyes-open practice is more comfortable and safer.

## Stop if the child becomes distressed

Do not insist that the practice be completed.

Return to connection, ordinary grounding, movement, or support from a trusted adult.

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## Related guidance

* [Stillness Library](https://knowledge.theholisticcare.com/knowledge/stillness-library)
* [Focus & Students](https://knowledge.theholisticcare.com/knowledge/stillness-library/focus-and-students)
* [Breathwork](https://knowledge.theholisticcare.com/knowledge/stillness-library/breathwork)


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